Anton Daniels, a content material creator, bumped his gums about how Black males ought to understand single Black girls ages 30 and up. No, it’s not good.
On Thursday, Jan. 18, Daniels posted a video of him insinuating that single Black girls ages 30 and up (presumably with youngsters) aren’t nice girls.
“If she wasn’t fucked up, what makes you assume that she wouldn’t already be taken up by now?” He requested. “You assume that she 30, 40, 50 years previous, and each single man that ever got here throughout her simply missed out on an amazing factor?”
He continued, “Each single man by way of her total existence on the face of this earth, they simply fumbled. They didn’t know what they missed out on. Everyone was loopy. And also you the one which found the diamond that’s been seen for the entire world. She on social media, she in any respect the little sizzling spots, she making herself obtainable. And also you, the one which simply found her despite the fact that she had youngsters by three completely different dudes. All of them didn’t need her.”
“You assume that she was simply hiding in plain sight, and God put a veil over each man’s eyes that handed over her earlier than he received to her?”
Daniels then mocked those that inspired males to be with these girls, saying, “Y’all let these simp coaches…’ Man, pay attention, it’s okay to get with that lady. You simply lacking out on factor.’ Then how come everyone else earlier than me didn’t see it?”
Males like Daniels and his disciples will perpetuate the view of Black girls as the issue, particularly girls with a number of child daddies, however don’t know what that lady skilled.
They slam Black girls for not settling with BS males however put girls just like the Kardashians — child mamas — on pedestals.
Nevertheless, some males fail to comprehend the requirements positioned on Black girls in romantic relationships in comparison with girls of different ethnicities. For instance, amongst Mexican Individuals and whites, a lot of the monetary duties fall on the boys, nevertheless it’s the other for Blacks.
Moreover, Black girls discover themselves turning into free psychological well being providers for Black males in relationships and catering to all their wants however don’t get the identical in return from the person. It’s like pulling tooth after they ask for love, high quality time, emotional availability, maturity, and so on. That’s referred to as wrestle love; some Black girls have witnessed it of their households for generations.
With the “wrestle love,” Black girls should decrease themselves and settle for the abuse and trauma to stay submissive and female to maintain their poisonous relationship afloat.
They continue to be in these relationships stuffed with abuse, infidelity and extra because of the previous wives’ story that “actual girls” endure ache and struggling to maintain a person and mend their damaged household. By no means thoughts her needs and wishes.
Black girls have all the time been those compelled to place within the work and sacrifice themselves. So, the ladies who grind the gears of males like Daniels will be the ones who’re selecting higher for themselves.
